“So, Jackson, what do you think mommy’s job is?”, in a rare moment of silence my friend popped this question to her four year old. She wanted to know how her little boy viewed mommy’s role and what she was portraying as important in their home. “You clean…”, Jackson paused and her heart sank a little. Maybe she was spending too much time cleaning and not enough time mothering. “And you play with me and teach me”, his eyes brightened and her heart was relieved. My friend’s conversation with her preschooler made my mommy brain rev into high gear. What...